Part 1: Serious relationship (looking for a wife)
Photo. A semi-naked body on the beach or a guy in disguise behind the computer at the office would not be the best fit for your personal profile. The best idea for a profile picture with serious intent will be one taken in a quiet, homey setting, on a couch, with a cat on your lap. Don’t you have a cat? It’s just to give you an idea. Note: a photo with your ex-girlfriend is not going to be a good substitute for a cat. Borrow the animal, or just center the image on its relaxed, smiling face, that will do too.
Text. Clearly, you don’t have to write, “Girls, I love you!” or “I’m looking for you, because my life is just work and no play!” I would hardly answer a call of a chronic womanizer or chronic workaholic. The fact that you have a job is good, but one should not forget about the pleasures of life. Unless, after the wedding, you want your lady to find someone more entertaining, while you sweat at work. Keep your profile words concise: your character traits, interests, and desires.
Temptation. This depends on the type of woman you are looking for. Tune her into your wavelength with phrases like, “I’ll take you, my love, to Paris and we’ll spend a week at the Louvre.” Or, “My dream is to wake up every morning and hear the happy giggles of our children.” Or, one more: “I can’t imagine my life without a mountain trail and a backpack.” These points are necessary to give the woman an idea of what her life will be like with you. If she’s looking for a music lover, she doesn’t modestly write “I love music.” She better write something like, “My jaw dropped at the recent Santana concert,” or “Mozart’s Requiem makes me cry.”
Part 2: Flirting and Brief Romance (Looking for a Good Time)
Photo Feel free to post your bare torso, of course, if you have one to show off. Or show yourself behind the wheel of a red Corvette. If you still drive this 89 Ford Escort, then you better show him a huge bouquet of flowers in your hands, or just your best smile. In other words, give her a hint that you are a lighthearted, fun, friendly person, that you have no intention of burdening her with your problems, and that you are capable of giving her a few weeks of fun.
text Do not delve into the mysteries of your personal life. The brief romance is a brief romance. Prepare it that will not be long, but sweet. Do not say honestly: I need a partner for intimacy. Even if she’s looking for the same thing, she won’t like the idea of being picked just for that. Some emotional degree of relationship is important for women. She should not be told that you only love her out of physical need.
Temptation. You can promise pleasant evenings at sunset and coffee in bed in the morning. Keep in mind that the woman will forgive you the fact that you need her as a friend without long-term promises, as long as you behave like a gentleman. This will be much better than promising her “golden mountains in the valley of love” and leaving her after the first night, coldly blurting out “I’ll call you.”
Good luck and have a great date!